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Hey, my name's Jan and this is my blog and if you've ended up on this page you're either a pro internet user or I posted my url all over the internet. Anyways, I'm 17 and in college and I just thought I'd make this to share all the random thoughts that pop into my head in the hope that they will interest people. Enjoy =)

Monday 25 April 2011

If I said I want your body, would you hold it against me?

Flirting is such an entertaining way to pass the time. Whether you're actually interested in the person or not is completely irrelevant; flirtatious chatter is just so enjoyable. Even a simple response can be made flirtatious by adding a simple wink or other suggestive emoticon but they make conversation flow that much better. It's fun to push the boundaries of flirtatious behaviour with each conversation as well, whether online or in person. Slowly advancing from the odd innuendo to poking someone or making an outright dirty comment. But, how far is too far before you leave their comfort zone and start making them feeling slightly uncomfortable. I suppose, if you so happen to do this, you can dismiss it as banter or just playful behaviour but does it affect how people act around you in the future? Online flirtatiousness is so much easier because it is so much more impersonal, you can get away with a lot more, especially if there is a genuine attraction to that party. This is an advantage for these seeking more than just a casual chat. but, generally, flirtation is a nice thing in any conversation with anyone(apart from family members, as that is just downright odd.) It makes the other party seem wanted in some way and boosts self esteem whilst also ensuring a nice friendly chat, although there may be the occasional awkwardness caused by going too far. Anyways, I don't know exactly where I'm going with this post or what point I'm trying to make but that's just how it is.

                                                                           x-Jan-x

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