This is a rather entertaining question that I received on my formspring account recently. (If you don't know what formspring is or if you want to check my account, check out www.formspring.me/Smilasaur) Anyways, it got me thinking about the whole principle of trying sex. Is sex really something that should be tried? Or is it something that should be experienced when you feel ready, with someone you feel ready to experience it with? Sex should never be tried, it's not like a new food, it's an important emotional and physical experience - especially the first time.
On a personal level, I wouldn't try sex with a girl, because I am comfortable with my sexuality - I am a gay male and I don't need to 'try sex with a girl' to see if I enjoy it. Would a straight male/female 'try sex' with someone of the same sex to see if they enjoyed it? I don't think they would somehow, I think they'd probably be offended that I'd even asked the question in the first place as being straight is perceived as 'normal' and any deviation from this 'norm' must be questioned and analyzed. Would you try sex with your pet to see if you enjoyed bestiality? Again, I think not. So, thank you, anonymous formspringer for your question; maybe you should think about a question before you send it?
x-Jan-x
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